北京夜生活论坛

Emotional analysis of club students

As night falls, the bar is full of lingering music and dazzling lights full of mysterious colors, with unstoppable temptations.

Every night Shengge, midnight carnival, misty haze, hangover company.

This is an activity space for adults who have leisure time, but now there are some unwilling and lonely figures of middle school students-the star dream is always far away in Luohu, a couple is happy, Yifan classmate of a high school (3) class in a school is a personal thingThe boss went to the bar and did not know her.

Because Yi Fan can sing and dance, she has changed from a consumer here to a migrant worker.

Every night, they perform a duo or solo dance, or sing a few popular songs, which often wins applause.

Yifan’s brilliant performance boosted the bar’s business, and the boss gave Yifan a modest monthly salary.

Yifan went to the bar almost every afternoon after school. The picture shows that there are popular places to eat, drink and sing, and a part-time salary.

　　When they were teachers in these schools, Yi Fan was a little excited: “I want to be a star and I don’t want to study because my grades are not good. The teacher discriminates against me. My classmates look down on me. Reading is really boring!

When it comes to the attitude of his family, Yifan’s eyes are red: “I don’t have a home, and I don’t want to go back because that home doesn’t belong to me!”

Yi Fan talked about her unfortunate life: “When I was 6 years old, my grandparents took me to Shancun Elementary School to study. It ‘s strange, how can someone else ‘s children have parents to send them, why do n’t I have parents?

I was noisy looking for father and mother, the two old men only sighed with tears.

Until I graduated from elementary school, an uncle and an aunt came and said that they were going to pick me up for secondary school in Shenzhen.

I came to Shenzhen with a series of question marks.

It turned out that Shenzhen was the place where I was born, that uncle and aunt just gave birth to me instead of supporting my parents.

All of these came to me gradually after I came to Shenzhen.

“” I was born to be a mistake in this world. The father of three generations of single passers hoped to continue the incense. Tie Xin wanted to have a son, but she gave birth to my daughter.

My dad put me at Grandpa’s grandparents’ house overnight and lied to a foreigner. I died as soon as I was born and made a fake grave.

They deceive themselves so much in order to give birth again.

Unexpectedly, the second child was still a daughter.

When I think of it, I resent it. I ca n’t even say the words ‘Mom and Dad’.

In fact, I started out at the bar just out of curiosity. Later, my boss invited me to work, and I would make the wrong mistake, so I could make money.

Now, I have a wish to make money to support myself, and to repay the grandparents’ grandma . “Yi Fan smiled shyly and did not want to continue.

　　The bar owner said that Yifan has been a bit troublesome recently. Several unidentified boys often come to look for active troubles. Sometimes when drunk, they also use Yifan to manipulate their feet. We also can’t help.Lina loves photography, and the owner of the colleagues who have the theme of advertising photography, likes her, organized a personal photography exhibition for Lina.

Since then, Lina has become famous and seems to have found a little self-confidence.

At the bar, Lina greeted photography lovers and found her first love.

Do not go home at night, soak in the bar every day, do parents have comments?

Lina said that there is no second person in the family, except that I am a bird. I am afraid of loneliness, so I came to the bar.

　　With that said, Lina’s eyes turned red: Dad started his own company, served as chairman, and mother as finance minister.

The only thing in their minds is business, efficiency, and earning money. I can only call box lunches during meals.

They seemed to think that everything was all right when they gave me money.

It’s rare to see them once a week, and it’s rare to have a meal at home for a month.

This year’s “May 1st” festival, I came here, and it was so easy for the family to gather at the hotel table. When pointing out my studies, my dad was still ridiculous.

The beautiful name called me a babysitter to take care of my life and study. In fact, the babysitter became my discipline, and often gave me small reports.

I couldn’t stand it, so I drove the babysitter away, and my father gave me a slap in the face, and he scolded me for being overbearing. I scolded my father for being a treacherous trader . At the bar, Lina learned to smoke and smoke, often after going crazyI went home drunkenly in the middle of the night and sometimes huddled all night with my boyfriend curled up in a bar box, but the photography level was not much improved.

　　It ‘s going to be rainy. It ‘s another rainy night to marry someone. In a certain bar in Shekou, Bake sat in a corner and waited.

He was in high school and had a nickname “strike.”

In the classroom, he often commented on the teacher’s lectures and even raised some weird questions. He intentionally prevented the teacher from getting off the stage. The teacher got stuck in applause and the teachers and classmates respected him.

Barco is a student at school. According to school requirements, he should study by himself at night. However, he just could n’t sit still. He ran to a nearby bar for fun almost every afternoon after school. He hurried back to check in at 10:30 in the evening.Sometimes after checking the roll, I left the school and ran to the bar. Then I returned to school the next morning. Therefore, it is common to doze off in class.

　　Parents thought Barco was living in school, and the school thought Barco was home.

The bar, however, has become a fringe area between school and family.

Why make wine?

　　Barco said: “In order not to go home.

The bar is my spiritual sanctuary. Three years ago, my parents divorced. My mother played mahjong all day to vent her resentment because she was mentally decadent.

Even when I went back, my mother didn’t cook, but just gave me a box lunch.

Recently, my mother got married again, and the person who became my stepdad was the mahjong master that my mother admired.

I don’t approve of my mother finding such a person to marry. I feel embarrassed, so I asked to live on campus.

In fact, my home is very close to school, and it takes only 5 minutes to walk.

It’s going to rain, and mother will marry.

Although I am in pain, I can’t control it. Living at school is an excuse, and escape is a fact.

“For the” points “, people have missed the sophomore year of high school, with good academic performance, ranked fifth in the class, and also served as a monitor.

But the problem lies in the ranking of the scores. The father of Peregrine is dissatisfied that he is ranked fifth, and he must be defeated in the first place in the class.

The reason for You Yun’s father is: If a third-class school like this doesn’t rank first in the class, don’t even want to enter the university.

In order to concentrate on studying well, my father also asked You Ye to resign from the position of monitor, and refused to participate in all school activities.

　　The girl who ranked first in the class was a girl who couldn’t say a complete sentence all day and didn’t participate in any activities. She never held any job or position other than studying, but for two years she had firmly retained the first place.

You Yun’s dad envied such a child, thinking that being a monitor of a class would affect learning, and only the highest academic achievement was the last word.

He even thinks that boys can’t learn better than girls, and let girls occupy the first place in the class, this class has little hope.

　　Obeying Dad’s will, You Xuan resigned as the monitor and no longer participated in all school activities. There was only one goal in her mind: to defeat the first place and compete for the first place.

Sometimes the force is equal to the reaction force. When entering the first semester of senior year, Yu You did not enter the first place, but replaced the eleventh place.

From then on, You Xun felt shameless to see Jiang Dong’s elders, so he didn’t dare to go home on the weekend, so he went to the bar and lied to make up lessons at school.

　　Bars are expensive, and they cost around one hundred yuan a night. Where does the money come from?

The money given by parents is far from enough, what should I do?

Peregrine began to borrow money.

First borrow it from relatives and friends, then borrow it from classmates, but they only borrow it and not pay it back. Others say he is a liar.

Later, You Xun simply asked his mother for money in private, “Not even for Dad!
”

“But the civilians who wanted money continued to increase their weight, and the mother-in-law began to doubt, so she followed them secretly, finally catching the cruiser in the bar and revealed the mystery.

　　The bar is not a mental sanctuary bar for students, it is a place where the working class eliminates pastimes.

Students make bars to relieve pressure from schools, families, etc., and seek a space for adjustment or venting.

Middle school students in the flowering season, youthful emotions, conflicts with the values of parents and teachers, emotional changes with friends of the opposite sex, and the effects of physical development and psychological variation will inevitably lead to various problems.

But what are the methods and ways to solve the problem?

Parents are busy with their work, teachers are busy with their classes, and they often only focus on students ‘test scores and ignore the students’ psychological changes. Therefore, the bar has become the “third party” of homes and schools, and has become a spiritual refuge for students.

In addition, some unscrupulous merchants are profit-seeking, staring at the students’ money bags, playing frauds in bar culture, using every means to stimulate student spending, and establishing a so-called membership system to launch monthly card annual card consumption.

　　In fact, students rely on the bar to dispatch psychological pressure and emotions, which is tantamount to drinking and quenching thirst. There will be more new problems and they will have any unexpected effects.

Isn’t the school equipped with a psychological counseling room (some of them are just useless, or even none at all)?

Is the counseling room really working?

Do parents have an equal conversation with their children for two hours a week?

Parents, we must care about both the giants of IQ and the gnomes of EQ.

Save the children, don’t let them become lost lambs in the bar!